Everybody has a problem, in which either we can handle the problems or vice versa. But, when you are having a partner beside you, the first and foremost that you need to take note is behaving yourselves. Tolerance, give and take are the most important criteria in a relationship, whether you like it or not, the fact is he or she is meant for you by the god.

When two person get involve in an argument, the other person should not giving a damn thing towards the matter, in which we need to step behind and listen to what his or her talking about. You will not lose anything by keeping yourselves silent, on the other hand you actually winning the situation, by not pressuring yourselves into the argument.
After all, we do realize that everybody has their emotion and dignity to protect with. But, never use his/her dignity for provoking. A provocation whereas the “angry partner” will lose his/her control, and at the end of the result, both of them are losing. For example, a lady should not provoking her partner to find her replacement, and a man should not always keep reminding her about his ex-girlfriend.
But, whenever or wherever we stand, we should remember that a love is easy to built, but to maintain it might be a problem. The lady has her own opinion, and the man also has his own opinion. Therefore, to make both of the opinions meeting the break-even, the discussion between both of them is needed. How do we suppose to discuss everything, if the partner keep engaging his/her phone calls, not replying the message, even very hard to buzz the partners in YM?
Therefore, a little solution is to keep down the egoism and voice tone, just to make sure that everybody is relieve towards each other. On the other hand, the “angry partner” should not be stubborn, neglect the facts and ignoring the truth. Besides, asking for the forgiveness is the best solution, after all, what is the best word other than ‘I am sorry’?
How about you?
Tags: controlling yourselves, get angry, persuading you partner, tolerance in relationship


