Entri kali ini aku tulis dalam Bahasa Melayu, sebab lebih mesra alam dengan pembaca-pembaca Muslim. Aku memang sangat tertunggu-tunggu Ramadhan tahun ini, tak tahu la pasal apa. Tapi, aku rasa happy sgt, gembira pasal tahun ini merupakan tahun kejayaan aku. Setelah aku hampir musnah pada Ramadhan yang lepas, aku berharap Ramadhan tahun ini dapat memberikan nafas baru untuk aku.

Berpuasa, bak kata ustaz aku, ‘menahan diri dari lapar dan dahaga serta perkara-perkata yang membatalkan puasa dari terbit fajar hingga terbenam matahari’. Korang still ingat perkara-perkara yang membatalkan puasa? List ini adalah sekadar reminder daripada aku kepada korang semua :

• Memasukkan sesuatu ke dalam liang rongga dengan sengaja
• Mengeluarkan sesuatu dari dalam liang rongga seperti muntah
• Bersetubuh atau bahasa mudahnya having sex
• Keluar darah haid atau nifas
• Gila walaupun sekejap, pitam sepanjang hari
• Keluar air mani dengan sengaja

Malam sebelum puasa, aku mengingatkan diri aku dan rakan-rakan pembaca tentang niat puasa pada bulan Ramadhan, iaitu:

“Sahaja aku berpuasa esok, fardhu bulan Ramadhan tahun ini
kerana Allah Ta’ala”.

Kalau boleh, niat untuk sebulan terus, kang terlupa sia-sia jerk.

Selain itu, masa Ramadhan ni banyak perkara-perkara sunat yang boleh kita amalkan. Yerla, Ramadhan ialah bulan penuh keberkatan, bulan orang beramal. Maka, sudah tentu kita cuba bersedekah seperti kelaziman setiap tahun. Antara perkara-perkara sunat yang digalakkan adalah :

1. Makan sahur walaupun sedikit
2. Segera berbuka puasa
3. Berterawikh
4. Bersedekah sesama jiran
5. Membaca Al-quran dan berzikir

Aku harap, dengan sedikit peringatan ni dapatlah kita mengingatkan kawan-kawan kita yang lain. Aku tak pandai sangat nak hujah bab-bab agama yang mendalam, so aku hanya share kan jerla benda yang basic, tapi mudah dilupakan oleh sesetengah orang.

Bile sebut Ramadhan, mesti dah terbayang bazaar Ramadhan, resepi-resepi yang bakal dipakai dan lain-lain. Ye, aku juga mengalami perasaan yang sama. Semalam, aku berbual dengan kawan aku, Azim mengenai bazaar Ramadhan. Bagi aku yang menetap di Dengkil, sudah tentu bukan masalah besar bagi aku. Tetapi kepada yang menetap di Cyber, Bazaar Ramadhan terletak di Putrajaya, iaitu di depan bangunan Ministry of Finance. Kat Cyber ni, ada jugak bazaar Ramadhan, tapi tak sebest kat Putrajaya.

Jikalau korang ingin tempat makan yang sedap-sedap, korang boleh try Dengkil yang menyediakan pelbagai juadah makan yang menarik. Sesungguhnya aku sangat bangga dengan tempat ini, walaupun jalan die buruk(under construction), tapi nak carik makan bukan main senang..Hidup DG!!

Haih, sudah 4 tahun aku sambut first day puasa kat tempat lain, dah takde ngan family. Aku pun dah lama tak jenguk Melaka, sangat busy dengan urusan kerja dan kampus. Sampai Papa aku bertanya, ‘Eyh, ko nie biler nk balik?’. Takpe lah, biar lah aku kat sini belajar seperti biasa, nanti dah abis exam, aku balik ler. Actually, aku malas sangat nak drive balik, terlalu malas.

By the way, urusan pembelian domain kepada pemenang-pemenang dah selesai. Just En.Afzai still pending, takpela, aku simpankan jerk bajet untuk die. Hari ni, aku akan uruskan penghantaran buku kepada Vangardx dan Abd Fatah. Ada kawan kita dah dapat domain baru, pemilik nama blog terpanjang iaitu http://ibnuyusufaljohori.blogspot.com dah bertukar nama ke http://www.yussamir.com. Diharapkan kempen perkongsian ilmu beliau dengan kita semua akan bertambah maju. Blog die sangat informatif ok, aku pun kadang-kadang kene baca betul-betul bagi paham. Tapi, kalau die tukar ke layout yang lebih menarik, mungkin lebih best untuk kite semua. Sekian.

I’m writing this article with one aim, to share my experiments with you about generating the visitors. As a new blogger, the most thing that de-motivating us is the poor numbers of visitor. Since the purpose of creating a blog is to share the views with others, lacking of visitors will make all your efforts and views useless.

3 Can-Go (Boleh Blah) Tips to Increase Visitors

1. Write A Controversial Entry
Believe me! It does working. Are you still remember about my posting on Bunga Citra Lestari? Based on my google analytic, the posting about Bunga Citra Lestari had become a popular entry this month. Yeah, everybody love a kissing act, especially when it comes to hot celebrity. Although it’s kind of crappy post, nevertheless it’s still contribute to the numbers of your visitors. Here a screenshot from google analytic.

2. Create A Hype In Blogosphere
When I’m conducting the ‘Need A Domain Name‘ competition, there was a boom in numbers of visitors. Yeah, everybody that blogging, will absolutely need a domain name. That’s why I’m offering the prizes that give some valuable added to the probloggers. Furthermore, by creating the hype, other probloggers will definitely announcing your blog in their entries. But, it’s still depend on your niche topics. Well, I forget to say my gratitude to the bloggers that featured about my competition, here the list :

• Megat
• Info Malaya
• Abd Fatah
• DFebian
• Qaiyum
• Yussamir

Well, if you’re not listed, please tell me k!

3. Attend All The Bloggers Gathering
As you are noticed, Rumpun 2007 had give me a lot of exposure. Since then, hafreze.com had become a bit of well-known in blogosphere. How did it happen? The fact is, when you’re attending this kind of event, you can create a story about this stuff and may get featured by the organizer. By the way, the first thing is you must set in your mind that gathering is not a place where you can get free food or drinks. It is a place where you get to know each other, exchanging you blog’s address. Frankly, gathering is a place where you are selling yourselves for promoting the blog. In future, I’ll definitely attend all the gathering, no matter it is organized by Nuffnang or Advertlets. My aim is to get to know with each other, as well as making my blog being well-known, just as Kennysia.com. Here are the statistics from advertlets and google analytic, after I attending the Rumpun 2007.

Google analytic

Advetlets Statistic

I hope that this tips will work well with you guys! especially for the new bloggers like me..ahakz.(I’m not really new ok, already 3 years doing this kind of things, just lately I become serious with this stuff)

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P/s: I just received a mail from Nuffnang concerning about my entries on dropping their advertisement! Yeah, they give me a persuasive explanation, maybe I’ll putting the Nuffnang ads back.

Is it suiciding will resolve all the problems that you suffered? I just came back from dinner and received a forwarded message about this suicide case. Just a bit shocked, because within this few months, there was another suicide occurred at Ixora. To dear readers, I hope that you will open your mind and think rationally before commenting.

Ixora, a place where most of the MMU Malacca student lives. Since it first opened, there was an accident of people jumped from the 18th floor, a tragic accident. Since then, Ixora had become a popular place for committing suicide. Based from BoringLog, the girl that committed suicide was an Indian. By the way, there was a video that featured about this suicide case. Video after this jump.

She’s still young, there’s a long way for her to achieve success. Furthermore, why can’t she think about her family first? Just imagine, a mother who hoping a success for her daughter, suddenly dying by suiciding herself. A father that hoping her daughter might someday married happily with a man, suddenly his hope was broken.

According to Islam,

berfirmanlah Allah:

“Dan jangan kamu membunuh diri-diri kamu, kerana sesungguhnya Allah maha belas-kasih kepadamu.” (an-Nisa’: 29)

Islam told us to be optimist when facing any problems, doesn’t matter if the problem was small or big. If we try to find a way to solve it, insyallah Allah will give us some vision to solve the problem. I hope that, there will be no more suicide attempt by MMU student. I feel really sad, sad to her parents; that pampered her since child until now. May god bless her.

Please do share you views and opinion with us, the comments will be filter. Any kind of criticizing act will absolutely be banned.

Update! : Here what I quoted from TheStar

Varsity student jumps to her death

MALACCA: A 22-year-old final year Multimedia University accounting student is believed to have jumped to her death from the 18th floor of an apartment in Bukit Beruang at 6.30pm on Friday. Police said the girl’s slippers were found on the 18th floor.

It is believed that the girl, who resided in a nearby apartment went there to visit a friend at about 6.20pm.

A guard, who heard a loud thud, found the body sprawled on the ground floor and informed the police.

The student’s parents, who are staying in Shah Alam, have been notified.

Good news for tv series fan. The most popular tv series, Heroes Season 2 will begin on 24th September 2007. I’m the one who following the Heroes Season 1, I mean really addicted to this series. A story where ordinary people gain their power to save the world from the exploding nuclear attack. ‘Save the world, save the cheerleader’ , a popular sentence that being said by Hiro Nakamura to Peter Petrelli in a train, become a significant to Heroes fan.

The spoilers of season 2
Based on Tvsquad.com, a few spoilers have been revealed, such as:

• Hiro will have a love interest. [Source: The Ausiello Report]
• The show’s first season will end in a cliffhanger that ties up season two. “It’s more of a cliffhanger as to the welfare and well-being of several of our characters. Obviously it plays into where we kick off at the beginning of season two,” Tim Kring revealed. [Source: SCI FI Wire]

By the way, check it out the promo video of Heroes Season 2. Video after this jump.

P/s: Do you have the same interest with me? Share your views on Heroes with us!

Within this few days, some popular bloggers had covered a lot of stories on building the relationship, love and trust. Khai Scukz, the founder of Scukz.com not left behind, he featured a story on an advertisement, about the multiracial relationship. Yet, MohdIsmail, had covered a story on virtually propose for love.

First story of virtual love:
Here a true story, based on my experience when involving in love. Yeah, I’ve been through many kinds of love, in the real world till virtual. Basically, the most that I remembered was with one of my ex-girlfriend in school, let me call her as ‘R’. She was my first love, and the one that I haven’t meet until now.

So, how we fall in love?

It’s start on summer June 2003(Malaysia got summer ker?..haha), one of my friends was admiring her. He often borrowed my handphone(Nokia 3310) to call ‘R’, of course for lepaskan rindu. Well, he had done a big mistake. The lady always call him through my number, and as usual I’ll be the one who answering her.

So, the story begin. From friend, we became a lover; Yet, we still didn’t met each other. This is because I’m staying in a boarding school, the school rule had made some limitation for us.

Every night, ‘R’ and me will spent our time on phone, talked to each other like there’s no tomorrow. Since I’m in a boarding school, the most suitable way to receive things is through mail. I received a bunch of photograph of her, letters full with colors, somewhat the letters also had a odour of fragrance.

The virtual love was really romantic. Although we didn’t met each other, not even once, the feeling of love was deep enough in my heart. By the way, after half a year of loving, I decided to left her since I had to concentrate for my SPM(Malaysian University Certificate)

After 4 years, suddenly I met her on friendster. I sent her a mail and she replied, surprisingly, she still remembered me. It’s like a thunder striking into my heart, I fall in love again to ‘R’ even she already had a boyfriend. Yeah, nearly a year without any love, ‘R’ had opened back my heart to accept love.

Another virtual love stories:
Khai, the founder of Scukz also had his own story. Really different from mine, yet still acceptable as a virtual love since he proposed Nieza for love through Yahoo Messenger(YM!). Read this great story..

Both of them came from far away, Nieza was from North, Perlis and Khai was from South, Negeri Sembilan. Both of them was met a place beautiful place called Lim Kok Wing University.

They were likely started to know to each other in a Creative Multimedia(CM) course. So, this CM class had 3 session and both of them was assigned into the same session. The love start when Nieza approaching a friend that sat beside Khai. She asked her friend whether he/she got a myspace account, at the same time, Khai also wrote his myspace account on the paper that Nieza had gave him.

At night, she add Khai at myspace and YM. Well, many words in YM doesn’t meant that you can talked much in the real world. While in reality, Khai and Nieza seldom talked to each other. Frankly, there’s no word between them, only YM became a medium for them to tighten their relationship.

So, how they fall in love?
One day, Nieza had requested a help from Khai to repair her antivirus. Basically, AVG antivirus had enlighten Khai’s life because it contribute the first and foremost for Khai to met on eye to eye with Nieza.

Not long after that, Khai had took a brave action. He proposed Nieza through YM as his lover, and Nieza accepted him. But, before she accept him, she tested Khai with some rules and regulation/privacy policy that Khai must followed. Till now, they still a lover..end.

For readers, does technology help you in love? Please do share your virtual love experience with us, we want to know!!