Technology In Love, Yes or No?
Saturday, September 8, 2007 10:05
Within this few days, some popular bloggers had covered a lot of stories on building the relationship, love and trust. Khai Scukz, the founder of Scukz.com not left behind, he featured a story on an advertisement, about the multiracial relationship. Yet, MohdIsmail, had covered a story on virtually propose for love.
First story of virtual love:
Here a true story, based on my experience when involving in love. Yeah, I’ve been through many kinds of love, in the real world till virtual. Basically, the most that I remembered was with one of my ex-girlfriend in school, let me call her as ‘R’. She was my first love, and the one that I haven’t meet until now.
So, how we fall in love?
It’s start on summer June 2003(Malaysia got summer ker?..haha), one of my friends was admiring her. He often borrowed my handphone(Nokia 3310) to call ‘R’, of course for lepaskan rindu. Well, he had done a big mistake. The lady always call him through my number, and as usual I’ll be the one who answering her.
So, the story begin. From friend, we became a lover; Yet, we still didn’t met each other. This is because I’m staying in a boarding school, the school rule had made some limitation for us.
Every night, ‘R’ and me will spent our time on phone, talked to each other like there’s no tomorrow. Since I’m in a boarding school, the most suitable way to receive things is through mail. I received a bunch of photograph of her, letters full with colors, somewhat the letters also had a odour of fragrance.
The virtual love was really romantic. Although we didn’t met each other, not even once, the feeling of love was deep enough in my heart. By the way, after half a year of loving, I decided to left her since I had to concentrate for my SPM(Malaysian University Certificate)
After 4 years, suddenly I met her on friendster. I sent her a mail and she replied, surprisingly, she still remembered me. It’s like a thunder striking into my heart, I fall in love again to ‘R’ even she already had a boyfriend. Yeah, nearly a year without any love, ‘R’ had opened back my heart to accept love.
Another virtual love stories:
Khai, the founder of Scukz also had his own story. Really different from mine, yet still acceptable as a virtual love since he proposed Nieza for love through Yahoo Messenger(YM!). Read this great story..
Both of them came from far away, Nieza was from North, Perlis and Khai was from South, Negeri Sembilan. Both of them was met a place beautiful place called Lim Kok Wing University.
They were likely started to know to each other in a Creative Multimedia(CM) course. So, this CM class had 3 session and both of them was assigned into the same session. The love start when Nieza approaching a friend that sat beside Khai. She asked her friend whether he/she got a myspace account, at the same time, Khai also wrote his myspace account on the paper that Nieza had gave him.
At night, she add Khai at myspace and YM. Well, many words in YM doesn’t meant that you can talked much in the real world. While in reality, Khai and Nieza seldom talked to each other. Frankly, there’s no word between them, only YM became a medium for them to tighten their relationship.
So, how they fall in love?
One day, Nieza had requested a help from Khai to repair her antivirus. Basically, AVG antivirus had enlighten Khai’s life because it contribute the first and foremost for Khai to met on eye to eye with Nieza.
Not long after that, Khai had took a brave action. He proposed Nieza through YM as his lover, and Nieza accepted him. But, before she accept him, she tested Khai with some rules and regulation/privacy policy that Khai must followed. Till now, they still a lover..end.
For readers, does technology help you in love? Please do share your virtual love experience with us, we want to know!!
Khai says:
September 8th, 2007 at 8:08 pm
isk isk.. ape la bro.. takkan sebab SPM pon leh tinggalkan si “R”.. patutnye hold la dulu.. bukan tinggalkan… hehehehe…. kan dah melepas…
neway, thanks.. cite pasal aku.. hehehe…. indah sebenarnya cinta cyber ini.. cinta cyberjaya.. hehehe….
hafreze says:
September 8th, 2007 at 10:52 pm
khai: alaa..itu zaman kanak2 beb..haha..tp tkper..skang on the way nk cucuk line balik..ade bf bukan semestinyer jadik suami kan..so..still ade chance laa..jahat seyh aku nie..
dlu aku nie nerd sket..pentingkan study..tue psl aku blah jerk cmtue..
syuxx says:
September 9th, 2007 at 1:36 am
ohoho~cyber love..
2imes oredy..tp, relationshhip dier xpjg lahh..more prefer tp reality world..
[syuxx.co.nr]
azleah says:
December 25th, 2007 at 5:26 pm
hey, mine too. proposed by my boyfie via http://www.scukz.com -> http://www.friendster.com -> phone number.
saya lagi la jauh yang amat. me from sabah (study kat semenanjung la) while he staying in selangor. 1st kitorg just kenal² mcm biasa kat website encik khai kita ni, maklumlah masa tu nak SPM kan so tak layan sangat lepak² kat sana. but then kakak angkat dia (also a scukz’s forumer) recommended me to him (actually saya tak tahu pun pasal ni).
dia add saya kata friendster. kat situ la dia hantar testimonials say “hi… apa khabar” dll. one day tu, he post my answered survey kat friendster punya buletin. ermmm ada satu soalan tu, lebih kurang pasal cinta la. dia jawab yg dia nak dekat dengan saya. hehe lawak gak cara dia. supposedly survey tu dia post kat buletin aje tapi rupa²nya tak, dia post survey tu sbgi mesej supaya saya boleh baca apa yang dia jawab. then via friendster la dia berani asked my phone number :)
eventhough dah genap setahun lebih, tapi still tak jumpa dia lagi ;) segan lak.. hehe..
shaffiya says:
January 4th, 2008 at 2:08 am
huhuhu…best taw kalau cyberlove..
mcm kte la..kenal cam tu je..lepas tu tuptup jd couple…kelakar betul…hehe..
kalau nak cite memang la panjang,but ni second time kte couple dgn org yg x pernah jumpe…
kalau jumpe cam ne la ye…
ntah betul ntah tidak pic dia tu..takut juge…
segan pun ade…semua ade la…
ape2 pun sape2 yg tgh syok couple dgn org yg tak pernah dorang jumpe..arap2 korang appy k…
muahxxx….